Sheila Graves

My hopes are to be a soft place to fall when discussing life’s challenges, difficult topics, painful thoughts & dashed hopes. As a ‘young at heart’ woman in my 50’s, I’m a survivor of many of life’s unexpected difficult high & low roads filled with detours, switchbacks & gotten lost trying to get myself over life’s mountains. As a daughter, sister, friend, girlfriend, wife, mother, homemaker, older student, divorcee & ultimately becoming a compassionate solution-focused strength’s based therapist after learning how powerful talk-therapy is. I’m familiar with life’s sudden wake-up calls w/missed signs, getting comfortable & days/weeks become months/years w/o noticing how I’d drifted into patterns that didn’t take into consideration my own wants, wishes & needs. I’ve been there.

We all have histories where we made good, bad, convenient & self-defeating decisions based on what we knew. We’ve also been alongside others who may have done the same & negatively impacted you on your journey. Experience & wisdom can be incredible teachers. Understanding our truths of ‘how-when-what-how-why’ of it all can be the glue that sets us free from repeating/role-modeling what hurt/deterred us most.

My innate curiosity, successes & failures has led me to find the honest answers I needed most and why I became a therapist. I earned my License as Clinical Social Worker with a focus on Adult Mental Health & Addiction. I’ve honed my passion, purpose & skills to help shorten the learning curve & needless suffering of those facing the slippery slopes when life’s difficult moments/transitions were around corners we couldn’t see.